Bring your own story.
A short timeline, even just three or four key moments, can help. There is no "right" trajectory. Inconsistency over time is normal.
An honest, demystified description of how an adult GIC assessment usually works, and how to walk in with what you want to say.
Team talk
Assessment can feel weighty, especially after a long wait. It is genuinely a conversation between you and a senior clinician, designed to understand your situation and plan care with you, not a test you have to pass.
Option talk
Adult GIC assessments are biopsychosocial, they look at your whole life, not just your gender. A typical first assessment, often with a consultant psychologist or psychiatrist and in person, will explore some or all of the following:
Most people see the clinic more than once before a care plan is settled. Expect a discussion of options rather than an immediate prescription, even if you've been waiting a long time.
Option talk
You don't have to perform anything. Bring yourself. These prompts can help you feel ready.
Your words
Decision talk